Wedding Traditions and Superstitions
A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe
is to wish the bride wealth. Some brides still place a penny in their shoe during the marriage ceremony.
If the bride helps to make her own wedding dress, lore states that this
will bring her bad luck. Worse, if she rips her wedding dress on the
day, it is believed to mean that the marriage will end in death.
Don’t worry ladies of Australia with our national abundance of 8 legged
friends; it is considered good luck if the bride finds a spider in her
wedding gown!
Wearing a pearl on the wedding day is said to bring bad luck and tears throughout the marriage
Dolling up the bridesmaids
is to fool the evil spirits, so they will not know which of the party the bride is.
The Garter
In rouggh 14th century society, is was customary for the bride to toss
her garter to the men, but sometimes they got a little too tipsy, and
would become impatient and try to take the garter off her early. Today
the groom traditionally removes the garter from the bride and throws it
to the unmarried men. The man who catches it is thought to be the next
to marry. At some weddings the man who catches the garter will place it
on the leg of the lady who caught the bouquet or they may start the
next dance. The garter is placed on the brides right leg, just above
the knee.
Pieces of the bridal attire were considered lucky. In order to obtain
this fortune, spectators would try to tear away pieces of the bride's
clothing and flowers. In an attempt to get away, the bride would toss
her bouquet into the crowd.
The Bouquet
The bride would throw the bouquet to the guests at the wedding and the
single woman who catches the bouquet is believed to be the next to
marry.
Carrying a horseshoe or a bouquet in the shape of one is considered
lucky for the bride, but only if the horseshoe is carried with the open
end up so the luck does not ‘tip out’.